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What Are We Holding NOW?

8/4/2025

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"I am the light of the world" 
~ Jesus, Gospel of John

In our last meeting for worship we had so many good messages.  I'm going to try to share from my own perspective how they landed for me. 

In the last 12 years or so we have witnessed the crap-ification of almost everything. No matter what government officials or business touches they seem to muck it up. I could make  a list but why bother? The deterioration is all around us. 

AND ... I don't want to focus on what is broken.   There is enough brokenness.  What can we imagine that's better?

We can start with the power of NOW!  The French word for now is maintenant.  Etymology tells us that it comes from  manū ("with the hand") and tenēre ("to hold"). Therefore, the literal meaning of maintenant can be understood as "while holding" or "in the act of holding".   Interestingly, the word maintenance comes from a similar root but meaning "upkeep, shelter and protection. "

An inquiry we might consider today is: 
  • What can we hold now that will bring a better future?  
  • What is there to shelter and protect? 
  • What do we focus on?  
My father used to say to me repeatedly as a child "what you think about comes about."   I've always tried to remember that.  If I want more love, I need to think about love and do loving things to bring love into the world.  If I think about brokenness there will be more of that. 

When Jesus said "I am the light of the world" it was in the gospel of John just after the mob was about the stone the woman who was accused of adultery.   "Let he among you who is free of sin cast the first stone"  Such a teacher.  In one brief sentence the lesson of self-reflection, empathy, forgiveness and a world where love can enter.  Can we be as wise as Jesus? 

We can consider the words of Jesus as a gate we pass through vis-a-vis all the people we meet and all the actions we take in the world.  
  • Do our thoughts and actions bring more light into the world? 
  • Do we, as human beings moving in the world, shine that light so that others may see it? 
Peace and love to all, 

~ Joseph Olejak
6 Comments
Donald Lathrop
8/7/2025 09:05:58 pm

Well done, Joseph. Don Lathrop

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Nancy Eos
8/9/2025 03:51:02 pm

Thank you, Joseph. Focus... If there is a maintenance to life ... and it is a matrix that from unsolid manifests the solid ... and that matrix was unconditional love ... what does that mean for what you are seeing with your eyes now? ... for what you are feeling now? ... for what you are touching in the future?

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Joseph Olejak
8/10/2025 06:39:52 am

As I look at life through the lens of love I see the opportunity to create more love. I see as if through the eyes of child unclouded by the detritus of bad experiences. Open. Free. Willing. Able. Excited. Eager.

When we hold love we open the way to a whole new world.

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Ronnie Ann Herman
8/9/2025 05:34:10 pm

This is something we should all always remember: "Let he among you who is free of sin cast the first stone" What a better world it would be.

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Frank Wall
8/9/2025 07:00:51 pm

I’ve learned two important things about how to deal with chaos around me.
One is that it’s important to listen to all views that people have without judgement and the second is that we need to learn kindness toward one another.
With these two things in mind it doesn’t matter what happens politically or socially.
Its our day to day interactions that will make a differance in the world

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Christina Beauchemin link
8/11/2025 04:14:08 am

There is a saying. "You see what you focus on." When you focus on what is broken, you see broken. When you focus on what is beautiful, you see beauty.

We are creating our own experiences here on this planet. Even though I was told otherwise, I believe God intended for us to have a beautiful life. Things are breaking down because they are broken and are only serving a few. People are waking up and seeing what is going on. I think that's a good thing.

A couple of years ago, we began focusing only on peace. Are we seeing the chaos? YES! Are we engaging in it? No. We are holding space here and keeping our property in an uplifted vibration. It has been very powerful to witness.

Thanks for your thoughts, Joseph. Is this really your last blog post?

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